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 You can probably still picture her: your best friend's hot mother, your aunt with the mysterious (and frequently changing) boyfriends, your sexpot neighbor who was astonishingly careless with the venetian blinds. They defined sex for you at an age when you couldn't even find it in the dictionary. They were the women who had accumulated a kind of experience no man can: the knowledge of what works, and what doesn't, through long, comparative experience of sex with a variety of partners.
In this class, you'll find our advice to men who would like to love more, and better. We'll give you the general principles of pleasure, then the finer points of bringing it about. Master both and you'll be the one she's been looking for all along--whether you've been together for 20 minutes or 20 years.
In order to do this, you'll need to learn the four laws of love...
Check your ego at the door
Do not ask a woman if you're the best she's ever had, or any version of that question. An honest answer may disappoint you. The key to quality lovemaking is to concentrate on being the best you've ever been. You'll be less self-conscious --and more effective.
Be more presentable
Waitresses might still ogle the guy with the rumpled frat-boy look, but that act gets old once a man hits his late 20s. To play in the big leagues, you need a pressed shirt, shined shoes, and an aroma of something other than stale beer. You may also want to sign up for Fine-Dining Etiquette 101. Women love a man who knows how to eat--even better if he can cook.
Find out which direction she's looking
A quality woman will be turned on not by what you've done, but by what you hope to accomplish. There's nothing quite so sexy as a young guy on the verge, with plans and dreams and elaborate schemes. If a woman seems more interested in your past and present than in your future, well then--the only future she's really invested in is her own.
Develop a signature move
Every man ought to do at least one thing really, really well. Here are a few that we know of:
The precoital massage. As a warmup to the main event, start by massaging the length of her legs, from her upper thighs down to her ankles. Then focus on the feet, kneading her heels and all other points beneath. Then zero in on the toes and stretch them individually. Of course, if her impeccable hygiene encourages you to suck her toes, you'll have her in ecstasy.
The neck bite. By biting into a fleshy area along the top of her shoulders, flaring out from the back of the neck, you will bring out the animal in her. Lie with her in a spooning position. Gently bite into the curve of flesh on either side of her neck, taking a generous amount of it into your mouth; alternate between pressure and suction. Writhing and cooing are good responses; screaming and threats mean you've taken the Cujo act too far.
The figure-8 tongue technique. When you're at her service down below, work the supersensitive area around her clitoris in a figure-8 pattern. Arouse her with gentle sucking until the little button swells, then carefully expose the area with your fingers. Use the slippery underside of your tongue to circle it to the left and then to the right. With the rougher top side of the tongue, flick from right to left and then up and down. Finally work up to figure 8s, alternating between your tongue's smooth underside and firmer tip. Constantly vary the degrees of pressure you use.
Latin-style thrusting. Latin lovers often thrust in a circular motion. Whether they got that from salsa dancing, or salsa got it from the thrusting pattern, we'll never know. Either way, it not only creates a good internal massage, but provides the right friction on her hot spots as well as around the vaginal opening. Rotary motion also gives the woman a feeling of more volume--of truly being filled.
Article Suggested By: Dennis Connors
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